Hey, how are you? Glad to hear it!
I'm great, thanks for asking.
So, the other day I got an invitation to my fathers wedding.
Yup. My dad is getting re-married.
I'm 99% sure his new wife and my mother "overlapped" but that's neither here nor there.
I finally met this woman, (I really wasn't interested in doing so)
and, to be honest, I pity her.
She's got money, a bunch, but is the quiet, submissive, mousy type.
And my father is taking advantage of her already.
When the house that him and my mother owned finally sold, rather than find his own place for him and his other daughter, he simply moved into his girlfriends house, leaving him no longer having to pay a mortgage, or rent, or for anything really.
He informed me though, that there's a prenup, and that everything will be split between my sister and I. He then added "If i even have any left by then. hahaha.")
Ha indeed. He can now spend all his money with really no consequences now that he doesn't have to worry about bills and such.
In case you don't remember the time I vacationed with only my father and sister, I shall remind you.
My father is a sociopath. He cares for no one, never really has, but is great at pretending that he does. I'm not sure if my father even has complex emotions, but i've never had a reason to believe that he does. (he sort of reminds me of Frank Underwood from House of Cards, except I think Frank may actually care for at least SOME people...)
This poor woman, probably a nice lady, just lonely and getting older... Sigh.
Anyway, the point is, i'm not going to his wedding.
If i did, in all honesty, I'd be the one to stand up and say "Don't do it! He's fucking crazy!" when the priest or whoever asks if anyone has a reason the two shouldn't be married...
I had really hoped that one day he'd snap out of it, suddenly care about someone other than himself, but the last few times i've spent time with him it has been very obvious that that would never happen.
I don't know what happened to my father to make him this way, but he's been like this for as long as I can remember.
Blah blah blah, sorry for the rant... I'm just a little sad, and a little angry, and a little frustrated...
Ugh.
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